You’ve built the life you were “supposed to” — the job, the house, the family. On paper, you’ve arrived. But internally, something’s missing...
You’re Not Broken. You’re Disconnected.
- You wake up drained, run on autopilot all day, and crash at night — still feeling like there’s so much to do.
- You’re the anchor at home and at work, but you feel untethered inside.
- You overthink everything, crave more control, and feel numb to the joy that should feel fulfilling.
- The people who matter most to you can feel that you’re not fully present — even if you’re physically there.
- You’ve tried hacks, podcasts, and performance tools. But none of it has created lasting change.
So why do you still feel so unsettled?
Life looks fine. But you don’t feel fine.
This isn’t weakness. This isn’t failure.
It’s a quiet disillusionment with a version of success that was never designed to fulfill you.
And no tweet, podcast, or productivity hack is going to fill that gap.
This is for the man who’s ready to stop performing, start leading, and finally feel like himself again.
You’re not in crisis. You’re just disconnected from yourself.
You’ve done everything you were told would bring happiness — success, stability, providing for your people.
And more often than you'd like to admit, you think:
“There’s got to be more to life than this.”
You’ve built the life you were “supposed to” — the job, the house, the family. On paper, you’ve arrived. But internally, something’s missing...
You’re Not Broken. You’re Disconnected.
- You wake up drained, run on autopilot all day, and crash at night — still feeling like there’s so much to do.
- You’re the anchor at home and at work, but you feel untethered inside.
- You overthink everything, crave more control, and feel numb to the joy that should feel fulfilling.
- The people who matter most to you can feel that you’re not fully present — even if you’re physically there.
- You’ve tried hacks, podcasts, and performance tools. But none of it has created lasting change.
And more often than you'd like to admit, you think:
“There’s got to be more to life than this.”
So why do you still feel so unsettled?
Life looks fine. But you don’t feel fine.
This isn’t weakness. This isn’t failure.
It’s a quiet disillusionment with a version of success that was never designed to fulfill you.
And no tweet, podcast, or productivity hack is going to fill that gap.
This is for the man who’s ready to stop performing, start leading, and finally feel like himself again.
You’re not in crisis. You’re just disconnected from yourself.
You’ve done everything you were told would bring happiness — success, stability, providing for your people.
What is The Reclamation?
What is The Reclamation?
It’s not self-help. It’s a full-system return to who you really are.
ready for your life to change?
- A return to your body — so you can feel grounded, steady, and present.
- A return to your values — so you stop betraying yourself to meet expectations.
- A return to the man you are when you’re not buried under pressure, stress, or noise.
Over 8 weeks, you’ll move through a practical, spiritual, and embodied process where performance gives way to presence, and pressure gives way to peace.
This isn’t a bunch of mindset tips or “just talk about it” therapy.
It’s a clear, proven path grounded in:
- Nervous system regulation — to get out of fight-or-flight and into control
- Mental clarity — to end the loops of doubt, overthinking, and indecision
- Spiritual alignment — so you can lead from truth, not ego
- Purposeful leadership — in your home, your work, and your own life
You don’t need to fix yourself.
You need to realign with what actually matters: your values, your vision, and your truth.
From there, you can create a life that works — not just on paper, but in your soul.
What is The Reclamation?
Here you are
going to state the challenges and frustrations
It’s not self-help. It’s a full-system return to who you really are.
ready for your life to change?
- A return to your body — so you can feel grounded, steady, and present.
- A return to your values — so you stop betraying yourself to meet expectations.
- A return to the man you are when you’re not buried under pressure, stress, or noise.
Over 8 weeks, you’ll move through a practical, spiritual, and embodied process where performance gives way to presence, and pressure gives way to peace.
This isn’t a bunch of mindset tips or “just talk about it” therapy.
It’s a clear, proven path grounded in:
- Nervous system regulation — to get out of fight-or-flight and into control
- Mental clarity — to end the loops of doubt, overthinking, and indecision
- Spiritual alignment — so you can lead from truth, not ego
- Purposeful leadership — in your home, your work, and your own life
You don’t need to fix yourself.
You need to realign with what actually matters: your values, your vision, and your truth.
From there, you can create a life that works — not just on paper, but in your soul.
Is this for You?
The Reclamation is for the man who’s ready to stop pretending everything’s fine — and finally do the deeper work to get clear, grounded, and powerful again.
This is for you if:
- You’re exhausted from trying to hold it all together on the outside while falling apart inside
- You’re successful by most standards, but feel disconnected from your body, purpose, or peace
- You’ve been short-tempered, distant, or numb with the people you love — and you don’t like who you’re becoming
- You overthink everything, but feel stuck in place — without a clear way forward
- You wake up thinking, “There’s got to be more to life than this daily grind”
- You’re not looking for more tips or tools — you want real transformation
- You’re open to growth, spiritually curious, and ready to lead your life from within
This is not for the man who wants quick hacks or surface-level strategies. It’s for the man who’s ready to reclaim his clarity, presence, and peace — from the inside out.
Is this for You?
The Reclamation is for the man who’s ready to stop pretending everything’s fine — and finally do the deeper work to get clear, grounded, and powerful again.
- You’re exhausted from trying to hold it all together on the outside while falling apart inside
- You’re successful by most standards, but feel disconnected from your body, purpose, or peace
- You’ve been short-tempered, distant, or numb with the people you love — and you don’t like who you’re becoming
- You overthink everything, but feel stuck in place — without a clear way forward
- You wake up thinking, “There’s got to be more to life than this daily grind”
- You’re not looking for more tips or tools — you want real transformation
- You’re open to growth, spiritually curious, and ready to lead your life from within
This is not for the man who wants quick hacks or surface-level strategies. It’s for the man who’s ready to reclaim his clarity, presence, and peace — from the inside out.
This is for you if:
You’re not unmotivated. You’re misaligned.
Here's What You really Need and why most coaching and therapy miss the mark
Learn to lead yourself — especially in the hard moments.
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If you’re burned out, disconnected, or just going through the motions — the answer isn’t more productivity, more pressure, or another mindset shift. You need a new framework. One that helps you lead your life from within. To truly shift out of the cycle you’re in, you must:
Know who you are — and who you’re not.
Build a clear vision and direction.
Life won’t stop being challenging. But you don’t have to lose yourself in it. When you learn how to regulate your nervous system and stay grounded, you move through pressure with clarity and calm.
You’ve spent years performing for promotions, approval, or peace.
Inside The Reclamation, you’ll reconnect with your core values and learn to lead from truth — not a script in your head.
This isn’t about “doing more.” It’s about doing what matters.
You’ll create a future that’s aligned, purpose-driven, and sustainable — one that actually excites you to wake up to it.
Here's What You really Need and why most coaching and therapy miss the mark
Learn to lead yourself — especially in the hard moments.
01.
02.
03.
If you’re burned out, disconnected, or just going through the motions — the answer isn’t more productivity, more pressure, or another mindset shift. You need a new framework. One that helps you lead your life from within.
To truly shift out of the cycle you’re in, you must:
Know who you are — and who you’re not.
Build a clear vision and direction.
Life won’t stop being challenging. But you don’t have to lose yourself in it. When you learn how to regulate your nervous system and stay grounded, you move through pressure with clarity and calm.
You’ve spent years performing for promotions, approval, or peace. Inside The Reclamation, you’ll reconnect with your core values and learn to lead from truth — not a script in your head.
This isn’t about “doing more.” It’s about doing what matters. You’ll create a future that’s aligned, purpose-driven, and sustainable — one that actually excites you to wake up to it.
If you’ve done all the right things and still feel off — it’s not you, its the approach.
- Reclamation Graduate
“When I first found this program, I was in a dark place — overwhelmed, anxious, and honestly scared. I felt like I was holding my breath every day, waiting for something to collapse. I was burnt out from my career, struggling with a toxic manager, trying to balance life with two kids, and silently spiraling into depression. I had nothing left in the tank.”
“This isn’t something I would’ve normally said yes to… but something inside me knew I needed a drastic change. I told myself I had nothing to lose — and that decision changed everything.”
“Just 5 weeks in, I’m not the broken and frightened man I was when I started. I’m calmer. More present. More in control. I start each day in the driver’s seat. I no longer let outside opinions dictate who I am. And for the first time in over 20 years… I’m not escaping through cigarettes or weed. I don’t need to.”
“I thought I just needed to stop feeling like sht. But now? I’m remembering that I was made for greatness. I’m starting to believe it again. This work woke something up in me that I thought I lost.
And I’m not going back.”
I thought I just needed to survive. Now I know I’m meant to lead.
in his words...
- Reclamation Graduate
“When I first found this program, I was in a dark place — overwhelmed, anxious, and honestly scared. I felt like I was holding my breath every day, waiting for something to collapse. I was burnt out from my career, struggling with a toxic manager, trying to balance life with two kids, and silently spiraling into depression. I had nothing left in the tank.”
“This isn’t something I would’ve normally said yes to… but something inside me knew I needed a drastic change. I told myself I had nothing to lose — and that decision changed everything.”
“Just 5 weeks in, I’m not the broken and frightened man I was when I started. I’m calmer. More present. More in control. I start each day in the driver’s seat. I no longer let outside opinions dictate who I am. And for the first time in over 20 years… I’m not escaping through cigarettes or weed. I don’t need to.”
“I thought I just needed to stop feeling like sht. But now? I’m remembering that I was made for greatness. I’m starting to believe it again. This work woke something up in me that I thought I lost. And I’m not going back.”
I thought I just needed to survive. Now I know I’m meant to lead.
in his words...
This isn’t self-help.
It’s The Reclamation.
- Wake up clear-headed and grounded
- Reconnect to your core values and masculine authority
- Learn to regulate your nervous system and shift mental loops in real-time
- Lead from presence, not pressure
- Feel fully present in your marriage and fatherhood — not just physically, but emotionally
- Speak your truth with confidence and calm
- Make decisions from discernment, not doubt
- Rebuild trust with your body, mind, and spirit
- Remember who you are — and start living like it
What You’ll Walk Away With:
By the end of this 8-week experience, you’ll:
- Wake up clear-headed and grounded
- Reconnect to your core values and masculine authority
- Learn to regulate your nervous system and shift mental loops in real-time
- Lead from presence, not pressure
- Feel fully present in your marriage and fatherhood — not just physically, but emotionally
- Speak your truth with confidence and calm
- Make decisions from discernment, not doubt
- Rebuild trust with your body, mind, and spirit
- Remember who you are — and start living like it
What You’ll Walk Away With:
By the end of this 8-week experience, you’ll:
If you’re done circling your potential and ready to live with clarity, confidence, and conviction — this is your next right move.
We start on July 7th, we go for 8-weeks
Spots are limited, and once we begin, doors close. I am offering this course one time only!
Your life doesn’t change by thinking about it. It changes when you make moves.
If you’re done circling your potential and ready to live with clarity, confidence, and conviction — this is your next right move.
We start on July 7th, we go for 8-weeks
Spots are limited, and once we begin, doors close. I am offering this course one time only!
Your life doesn’t change by thinking about it. It changes when you make moves.
Hi, I’m Ciara.
I’ve been coaching since 2009 and have helped over 1,000 people — men and women — reclaim their clarity, leadership, and purpose across every area of life.
I’ve worked with high-achievers, corporate professionals, new parents, entrepreneurs, and creatives. But one thing became clear:
Men were asking for something different.
They didn’t want therapy.
They didn’t want fluff.
They didn’t want to talk in circles.
They wanted results.
They wanted to be called forward — not coddled.
They wanted to get their edge back without losing their soul.
That’s why I created The Reclamation.
Because after years of being asked to recommend a men’s program — and not finding one I could fully stand behind — I built the one I knew would actually work.
And it does.
Inside this 8-week container, I’ll challenge you, support you, and call you out when necessary — always with respect + your goals top of mind.
I believe direct communication is kind communication. The pace of this program is fast — because your life isn’t waiting. We’ll use your real life as the testing ground. You’ll apply what you’re learning in real time — building momentum, rewiring your patterns, and creating real, lasting change as we go.
If you’re ready to go all in, I’ll meet you there.
count me in
Hi, I’m Ciara.
I’ve been coaching since 2009 and have helped over 1,000 people — men and women — reclaim their clarity, leadership, and purpose across every area of life.
I’ve worked with high-achievers, corporate professionals, new parents, entrepreneurs, and creatives. But one thing became clear:
Men were asking for something different.
They didn’t want therapy.
They didn’t want fluff.
They didn’t want to talk in circles.
They wanted results.
They wanted to be called forward — not coddled.
They wanted to get their edge back without losing their soul.
That’s why I created The Reclamation.
Because after years of being asked to recommend a men’s program — and not finding one I could fully stand behind — I built the one I knew would actually work.
And it does.
Inside this 8-week container, I’ll challenge you, support you, and call you out when necessary — always with respect + your goals top of mind.
I believe direct communication is kind communication. The pace of this program is fast — because your life isn’t waiting. We’ll use your real life as the testing ground. You’ll apply what you’re learning in real time — building momentum, rewiring your patterns, and creating real, lasting change as we go.
If you’re ready to go all in, I’ll meet you there.
count me in
Will I have access to the modules after the program?
Yes — and you’ll also receive future content upgrades.
Once you’re in, you’re in. You’ll continue to have access to the full program materials and any enhancements we make, even after your 8 weeks are complete.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this faith-based?
The Reclamation welcomes men of all spiritual backgrounds. You don’t need to believe anything specific — just be open to reconnecting with a deeper sense of truth, purpose, and peace. Many participants describe the experience as “spiritual" (not preachy) and deeply grounding.
What's next after The Reclamation if I want to keep working together?
You’ll have access to my personal calendar for tune-up calls (optional) at a small fee of $155/session, which includes 3 days of voice support after each call. Once you're "IN" my community, I do my best to make myself available to you. Couples sessions are also available if both partners have completed The Reclamation or The Becoming Her Course. Most only need 1 a year to stay strong in the distinctions taught.
What if I’ve never done coaching like this before?
You don’t need to have any experience. All that’s required is a willingness to be honest, open, and committed to the process. This program is built to meet you where you are — and help you move forward, fast. We keep it simple, direct, and effective.
Is this a one-on-one program or a group program?
This is a highly customized 1:1 program where all men enrolled will meet me LIVE for weekly teaching modules on Mondays at 10am PST / 1pm EST. Everyone enrolled will have the chance to reflect and ask questions inside the group on those calls only! All coaching calls are 1:1, customized and confidential.
How much time will this actually take?
Plan for about 2–3 hours per week. This includes one live group teaching call (1 hour), one personal coaching session (30 minutes), and time to reflect or integrate. You’ll be applying what you’re learning directly to your real life — so the work is woven into your week, not stacked on top of it.
Still on the fence? That’s okay.
Book a 30-minute clarity call — and see what’s actually possible when you stop doing this alone.
Will I have access to the modules after the program?
Yes — and you’ll also receive future content upgrades. Once you’re in, you’re in. You’ll continue to have access to the full program materials and any enhancements we make, even after your 8 weeks are complete.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this faith-based?
The Reclamation welcomes men of all spiritual backgrounds. You don’t need to believe anything specific — just be open to reconnecting with a deeper sense of truth, purpose, and peace. Many participants describe the experience as “spiritual" (not preachy) and deeply grounding.
What's next after The Reclamation if I want to keep working together?
You’ll have access to my personal calendar for tune-up calls (optional) at a small fee of $155/session, which includes 3 days of voice coaching after each call. Couples sessions are also available if both partners have completed The Reclamation or The Becoming Her Course. Most only need 1 a year to stay strong in the distinctions taught.
What if I’ve never done coaching like this before?
You don’t need to have any experience. All that’s required is a willingness to be honest, open, and committed to the process. This program is built to meet you where you are — and help you move forward, fast. We keep it simple, direct, and effective.
Is this a one-on-one program or a group program?
This is a highly customized 1:1 program where all men enrolled will meet me LIVE for weekly teaching modules on Mondays at 10am PST / 1pm EST. Everyone enrolled will have the chance to reflect and ask questions inside the group on those calls only! All coaching calls are 1:1, customized and confidential.
How much time will I need to dedicate?
Plan for about 2–3 hours per week. This includes one live group teaching call (1 hour), one personal coaching session (30 minutes), and time to reflect or integrate. You’ll be applying what you’re learning directly to your real life — so the work is woven into your week, not stacked on top of it.
Still on the fence? That’s okay.
Book a 30-minute clarity call — and see what’s actually possible when you stop doing this alone.
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The results you're going to get:
will change your life!
You’ll stop reacting from stress — and start responding from presence.No more snapping at your kids or carrying work stress into your home. You’ll know how to regulate, reset, and respond with intention.
You’ll make strong decisions — without the second-guessing.You’ll trust your instincts again and lead from your values, not fear. What used to feel overwhelming will now feel manageable — even empowering.
You’ll build stronger relationships — by showing up as your full self. Whether with your partner, kids, or team, you’ll create connection built on honesty, calm, and integrity.
You’ll reconnect to purpose — and start living like it matters again. This isn’t just about feeling better. It’s about coming alive again. You’ll stop surviving and start building a life that actually feels good to live.
You’ll stop living on autopilot — and start leading your life with clarity.Wake up with energy and direction, knowing what you stand for and how you want to show up each day.
Let's do this!
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The results you're going to get:
will change your life!
You’ll stop reacting from stress — and start responding from presence.No more snapping at your kids or carrying work stress into your home. You’ll know how to regulate, reset, and respond with intention.
You’ll make strong decisions — without the second-guessing.You’ll trust your instincts again and lead from your values, not fear. What used to feel overwhelming will now feel manageable — even empowering.
You’ll build stronger relationships — by showing up as your full self. Whether with your partner, kids, or team, you’ll create connection built on honesty, calm, and integrity.
You’ll reconnect to purpose — and start living like it matters again. This isn’t just about feeling better. It’s about coming alive again. You’ll stop surviving and start building a life that actually feels good to live.
You’ll stop living on autopilot — and start leading your life with clarity.Wake up with energy and direction, knowing what you stand for and how you want to show up each day.
Let's do this!